最近，拿了几天的假期回到家乡探望父母和出席表姐的婚礼。
回到家乡，感觉都应该很放松的因为：
不需要面对傲慢无理的客户，
不需要面对看不完的邮件，
不需要处理艰难的工作，
不需要面包装自己。。。
原来，不是想象中的轻松。
当看见身边的朋友都过的逍遥自在，自己都会觉得为什么他们可以过这样的生活？
当发现朋友没有为前途而紧张而不耐烦。
当知道表哥不求上进，无法给姑姑过好生活而愤怒。
当看见姑姑还维护着不求上进的表哥而发疯。
从个人的角度来衡量，也许他们真的做的不够好。
从他们的角度来衡量，也许他们已经尽力了或他们已经满足于他们所拥有的。还是他门也有不可告人的烦恼？
为什么自己会对这些事情而有那么大的反应毕竟那时人家的选择？
是自己要求过高？不知足？还是妒嫉？我不知道。。。
当看见自己为未来而打拼，为创造更好的生活而规划，为了家人的幸福而努力。
我已知道那无忧无虑的家乡生活已不属于我的了。
未来的路途也许是凹凸不平，充满挑战。我还是会要紧牙根向前冲因为更好的生活正在等待着我的来临。
Monday, June 1, 2009
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
“Busy is a fact, overloaded is a fact"
“Busy is a fact, overloaded is a fact, just depend on how you manage it”
What is your opinion on this sentence?
Some people might be thinking this is crazy, unacceptable, unreasonable…
Some people might be thinking this is made sense, reasonable……..
It’s seem easy to understand base on the words, but what is the hidden meaning?
Honestly, I think it is crazy when I heard about this sentence because it’s seem doesn’t made any sense. But, after think twice the hidden meaning could be meaningful.
We always complain that too many thing to do until can’t complete, no concentration, no dedication. I believe everyone also did the same thing. But, are we really stereotype ourselves as “I’m busy” or is it a way for us to express the feeling?
Personally, I think everyone also busy with their own thing and complaining is just a way to express the tiredness but doesn’t mean they are not competence, finding excuse and lazy to work!!
Anyhow, I do agree that we must learn to manage our work and time because it is a mandatory soft skill if you want to move further on your career and life. But, when people complained we must listen but not just simply stereotype people “you are not competence” because you are “killing” their effort.
Anyhow, I learnt a lesson on this sentence and I knew the person better.
This is the beauty of life. Even just a simple sentences but it’s gave you a good lesson and might change your mind too.
What is your opinion on this sentence?
Some people might be thinking this is crazy, unacceptable, unreasonable…
Some people might be thinking this is made sense, reasonable……..
It’s seem easy to understand base on the words, but what is the hidden meaning?
Honestly, I think it is crazy when I heard about this sentence because it’s seem doesn’t made any sense. But, after think twice the hidden meaning could be meaningful.
We always complain that too many thing to do until can’t complete, no concentration, no dedication. I believe everyone also did the same thing. But, are we really stereotype ourselves as “I’m busy” or is it a way for us to express the feeling?
Personally, I think everyone also busy with their own thing and complaining is just a way to express the tiredness but doesn’t mean they are not competence, finding excuse and lazy to work!!
Anyhow, I do agree that we must learn to manage our work and time because it is a mandatory soft skill if you want to move further on your career and life. But, when people complained we must listen but not just simply stereotype people “you are not competence” because you are “killing” their effort.
Anyhow, I learnt a lesson on this sentence and I knew the person better.
This is the beauty of life. Even just a simple sentences but it’s gave you a good lesson and might change your mind too.
Sunday, October 26, 2008
Life with Vessel
Don't misunderstand when you viewing this session!!I'm not a sailor.... Due to the nature of my work, I have to visit vessel frequently. Before this, i always thinking that be sailor should be a very nice occupation because can sail around the world and of course good pay:>
But, the thought was totally changed after I have work together with them! It is tough! Imagine...you have to work in the engine room with temperature more that 40 Celsius, unpredictable weather, sailing in open sea for long time (lucky 1 or 2 weeks, if not can be more than 1 month), have to stay away with family for long period (I have met with some crew who has never back to home for a year)...etc.
We always complained that too much workload, no enough time, working environment not good. If compare with them, all these compliances are nothing.
I really respect their passion, professional, hard work. Their attitude is a "big hint" for me to built up own characteristic and career path.
But, the thought was totally changed after I have work together with them! It is tough! Imagine...you have to work in the engine room with temperature more that 40 Celsius, unpredictable weather, sailing in open sea for long time (lucky 1 or 2 weeks, if not can be more than 1 month), have to stay away with family for long period (I have met with some crew who has never back to home for a year)...etc.
We always complained that too much workload, no enough time, working environment not good. If compare with them, all these compliances are nothing.
I really respect their passion, professional, hard work. Their attitude is a "big hint" for me to built up own characteristic and career path.
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